Hi everyone, well I sure am glad to be back home. I had a wonderful time at my niece's Quincenera (15th birthday) celebration. They had a wonderful mass followed by a celebration of the event. My niece looked so pretty in her gown. Boy, it is amazing how fast kids grow up these days. To bad some adults don't follow suit. I can not believe how my evening ended. I was suppose to stay with a friend of over thirty years and in the last fifteen minutes of the evening something went haywire. I am still trying to figure out what exactly I did wrong. We were getting ready to leave and decided to go downstairs. I stepped outside for a few minutes and had a smoke, and called my husband. I also needed to cool off because it was so hot in the hall and was waiting for my sister to come down. She was busy handing out some trinkets to her guests. There were over three hundred people there. I came back inside and my sister came down to change into some other clothes, and my so called friend decided she wanted a drink at the bar, but the Korbel brandy was up stairs at the party so we both decided not to have a drink, next thing I know she said she is going to the car, and I said okay I am going to say good bye to my sister who at the time was in the bathroom changing. I also needed to use the bathroom. It took about five minutes for me to say good bye to my sister. I then preceeded to my so called friends car and once I was in the car she became hysterical, yelling about how if I wanted to stay longer she would have stayed upstairs and had another drink, and that she did not even have a "buzz yet". Excuse me, what the hell. Last time I checked the evening was about my niece and not her getting buzzed as she put's it. Anyway, she then preceeded to tell me I was rude to her a couple of times during the night. So, while we were driving I kept asking her to explain herself and she kept telling me to be quiet and leave it alone or I will take you back to my apartment and you can get your shit and get out. Sorry, if your going to accuse me of something I think I have the right to know what it is. I finally told her to take me to get my belongings and I would be on my way. I did not feel very safe sleeping in the ghetto projects anyway, but it is sad to say, over something so stupid a long time friendship has ended. She did spend the day with me, yes, and helped out, and I repeatedly thanked her several times throughout the day, but I am not going to kiss anyone's ass. If you did not want to be there then you just should have said so and I would have been okay with that. Instead of turning into a drama Queen. So now in her child like manor has posted crap on facebook, sent me a few nasty emails, and I finally responded to her and told her that I wish her well, and to take care. I can not believe some of the remarks she made about me. Such as not being able to have children, about me having cancer, unbelievable. With those remarks it has definitely ended our friendship for life. She should spend a little more energy focusing on her parenting skills, and cleaning skills. Her apartment was down right disgusting to say the least. The bathroom had tons of empty hairspray cans and soap bottles not to mention a tub with ankle deep scummy water in it with clogged drains and it has not been scrubbed in a very long time. Every room in the house had clothes scattered all over the floor amongst the filth, and the kitchen was full of dirty dishes, probably everyone she owned. There was so much caked on food on her stove it is a wonder no one comes down with Salmonella. Sometimes words are worse than a slap in the face. Oh well, life goes on. I have a wonderful home, husband, career, and true friends. What more could one ask for. Like my favorite saying "Friends are like diamonds precious and rare, not like pebbles found everywhere!" Time to stop writing and get back to my homework. Take care all!